AAC Tips

I often get asked how Stalen is so good with his AAC device. We have worked so so hard. Here are some of the factors that had contributed to his success:

It’s very important to me so I’m always researching and working towards goals. I also am firm on these basic premises and have no problem shouting from the rooftops to everyone that his AAC goes wherever he goes, that it is his voice and under no circumstances should it be taken away or used as a punishment.

We follow a core word strategy. Stalen is introduced to and practices a new word about every 9 days. We started with words like stop, go, yes, no, more.

Vocabulary. We review and practice using vocabulary words for special occasions and seasons.

Modeling. I model every day. It is probably the strategy that has been the hardest to implement but so beneficial. Modeling means I use the iPad to talk to Stalen. It allows him to see what it looks like to communicate using the AAC device in real conversations. For me it was awkward at first but I set daily and weekly goals for myself and the more I used it the more comfortable I became with it.

Stalen loves technology. He is a scrolling maniac and we watch him go in awe. He texts, uses google maps, tries to purchase apps., can find anything on YouTube. He develops and works on his own skills that enable him to be quick on his device. This has served us so well.

SLP. We have consulted with an SLP on an ongoing basis to keep furthering Stalen’s proficiency with his AAC and we use his device in collaboration with other speech acquisition and development strategies. I also follow many apraxia strategies at home.

Usage. The more ways that you can incorporate the AAC into your daily life the better. Stalen uses his to request things but we also use it to make comments, play games, tell jokes, for arts & crafts and to read books. One of his favorite activities is painting and he loves to choose his paint colors on his AAC.

It’s nice to meet you!

It’s nice to meet you!

I’ve heard those words so many times I think I’ve taken them for granted. Recently, a woman said to Stalen “it’s nice to meet you”. He had given her a smile, a quick once over with his big blue eyes and his signature backwards wave. Her words were genuine and I felt like she seen him for his full potential and had quickly moved past his challenges and struggles.

So many times I see people whether strangers we meet or friends we run into and once they realize that my son is autistic and non-speaking, he doesn’t exist to them. I can’t think of anything more hurtful for a mother to witness…her perfect baby, her whole world discarded by others because of his disability. Ignored, dismissed or not even acknowledged because he is different and these differences are of no choice and of no control to him. It’s quite cruel when you think of it but it is a reality that happens every day for so many people.

I get it that some people are not sure what to say but a smile, a wave, a hi-anything really is better than nothing.

Stalen may only be 6 years old but he is amazing. He is a beautiful boy, who loves people. He is so much more than any dismissal or lack of acknowledgment.

He is worthy of a compliment, a smile, love, acceptance and friendship. He will enrich your life in ways that you can’t even imagine.

It IS nice to meet him, if your mind and your heart are open to it.